We all have emotions, feelings and so on but we need to be factual and be real to ourselves and others around us. When taking any decision, we should check all sides of the matter before making conclusion.

Having sense of objectivity means having the ability to be real and consider all facts involved in making choice. Continue reading “SENSE OF OBJECTIVITY”

We Can Be Better Together

Life will be more interesting if we all work together by appreciating each other’s uniqueness.  It’s not error that we are all different. There are various kinds of culture, custom, tribe, religion, profession and so on. These  veracity of existence is the flavor that spices the world. So, don’t expect everyone to be you or think like you.

Our value is in our uniqueness. Accept the fact that we are all different so we can mingle and enjoy our relationships and interactions. Life is sweet if we all value each other.




“Life is in phases, men are in sizes”- nice saying.

Just like there are different stages in human growth, there are many phases in human life. If you find yourself in a particular phase, don’t get worked out or worn out in a bid to get out. The secret is to enjoy each phases as it’s comes by putting your best act, all time. Continue reading “LIFE IS IN PHASES”


You can never under estimate the power of love. Love is the cardinal thing. If you have Love, you have life. If you can give or extend Love, you can give life.

One thing that is constant across all religion is Love. Most religions and doctrines if not all, reference God. They may have different mode of worship but they all believe and communicate with God. And it is a known fact that GOD is Love. As God is Life. Only God has the supremacy and authority over every life.

So, if you have Love that means you have God, which means you have life and abundantly.

The sequential connection between LOVE-GOD-LIFE is one of the strongest discoveries of all time. When you share Love with someone, you are adding life to that person.

A frustrated and distressed life can be restored commensurately, if Love is shown generously. A life in a mess is at the verge of losing its life. To gain that back, Love is the answer.

Loving enhances living. Love is a two edged sword that hit both side; both the donor and recipient of Love benefits. When you give love, you are enriched, when you receive love, your life is enhanced. Whether you are a giver or receiver, you are adding value to your life by interacting with love.

Life is a special and precious Gift that should be cherished and sustained by Love. Love is the engine that Propel the existence of our entity. Love of yourself and love of fellow human being (no matter the origin).

Love does not have boundary or limit. It cut across race, religion, tribe, tradition and culture.

I love my Life

I will share Love

I value my Life


This life was originally designed to be hitch free and sweet. The error and the catastrophe that beckons in life resulted as a failure of man-disobedience.

However, our creator has given us the liberty to enjoy the life he has given us. Though a man will work to survive, what we get from this life is largely dependent on what we expect and how we view life itself.

Getting the good things out of this life is a function of choice, because the term ‘good’ is relative. Being at peace and happy with yourself and appreciating your creator for giving you the ‘Gift’ is paramount to good living.

In respective of what you earn, what level or cadre fate has placed you, living a good life is largely dependence on you. Nobody else can make you happier than you make yourself.

You are the engineer of your life- the Architect (creator) designed you, you will engineer your living.

Whatever is your goal and aspiration in life, at any point; whatever you do should be handled with all diligence and a joyous heart. The fact that you yearn for a better tomorrow should not negate you from enjoying the goodness of the moment.

Your appreciating what you have now is instrumental to getting what you want in life. Do not be disdainful of the present in quest for the future, but rather live the present in the manner that will lead you to your desired future.

What you do and how you live your life at the moment and on daily basis will determine where you will be and who you will be tomorrow.

You have been handed the ‘plan’ of your life. You are the engineer that will build your life and thus actualize that plan. Mostly this plan is handed over to us through our DESIRE, VISION, DREAM, ASPIRATION and AMBITION.

Note: whatever you do to acquire your goals, always live happily and value your life.

I am happy with myself

I am happy with God

My life is good

My God is good


There is no way you can make significant progress in your relationship with other people if your life is a mess or if you’re basically untrustworthy. That’s why, in the last analysis to improve any relationship you must start with yourself; you must improve yourself” – Stephen Covey.

It all begins with you. It is all about you. To have a good friend, be a good friend, to have a good spouse, be a good spouse. Whatever you want to attract; make it part of you; thus making yourself an attractive magnetic.

If you are bad, dejected, distressed, frustrated, confused; no matter your state, the truth is you can get out of that state by making a decision and accepting that you can be good and better again. You can put all that balderdash behind if you decide to improve yourself. Continue reading “IMPROVE YOUR SELF”


One thing that is constant in life is the diverse changes that evolve every day. We all experience this evolution. Whoever you are, where ever you are now, your life has gone through and is still going though series of changes.

Changes in terms of growth (which is basic), everyone grows from child to adult then old age. As your chronological age is changing so your body and system is advancing in  same realm.

Our knowledge and acceptance of this fact of evolutionary will in the long run direct the role and part we play in life.

Be it a farmer (in the remotest village), a tech guy (may be in Silicon Valley), a politician, trader, business mogul, educationist, to name just a few. We all have one thing in common-the more we grow the more knowledge and experience we acquire.

The knowledge and experience we gained through the developmental stages of life, will ultimately affect our perspectives and also our dealings to daily activities.

We must embrace the inevitable changes that confront our life because it defines our identity.

Changes in my life will make me better

I am changing for good

My tomorrow will be greater than now